What are some highlights, milestones, and significant events of your H/D fandom experience? These could include communities or people, events or experiences, works (your own or someone else's), conflicts or celebrations, etc.
maya getting published and taking her work offline. the transition from LJ to FF.net to AO3. the fact that nobody does anonymous kink memes any more - remember those? they were great. they're just fests now, i guess.